Where Is the Magic?
Yes! You need to have what I call an “intentional relationship.” Talk about what the two of you can do to develop warmer feelings toward each other — and celebrate those feelings when they arise. Here are some ideas: > Do as many new things as you can together. > Start dating each other again. […]
Yes! You need to have what I call an “intentional relationship.” Talk about what the two of you can do to develop warmer feelings toward each other — and celebrate those feelings when they arise. Here are some ideas:
> Do as many new things as you can together.
> Start dating each other again. Brainstorm a list of things you’ve always wanted to do (big and small).
> Make room in your schedule for laughter — go to a comedy club or watch a hilarious movie together.
> Have sex regularly. Try new positions, locations, and introduce sex toys.
> Schedule time together to tell each other what you like about him or her and to talk about what is going right.
> Slow your lives down. It’s hard to connect when you’re both too busy.
