What Does It Feel Like to Have ADHD?
Everyone is not “a little bit ADHD.” And, no, this isn’t a medical fad. To understand what it really feels like to live with symptoms of attention defict, read this honest talk from ADDitude readers.
We asked ADDitude readers, “What does it feel like to have ADHD?”
Like I need an “off” button for my brain. When I try to explain to others that some of my behavior is due to ADHD, they say I am making an excuse. —Bee, Florida
Everyone thinks I do dumb things on purpose. My friends tell me that everyone has attention deficit. Sometimes I just feel stupid. —Angie, Mexico
Imagine that you crawled on your knees your whole life, but everybody around you walked on two legs. You recognize that you are different, and you know you should be walking like everyone else, but you just can’t keep your balance on two legs the way you can when you crawl. —Ashley, Ohio
Crazy, frustrating, and sometimes the funniest thing ever — once you learn to laugh at yourself! And we all need to. —Amy, Ohio
It is like watching a PowerPoint presentation that never stops. I tell someone something and, in the middle of a sentence, I go blank. It is embarrassing to have to ask the other person what you were talking about. People look at me and often think, “The lights are on, but clearly no one is home.” —Angela, Indiana
Having ADHD does not “feel like” anything. Unlike a physical problem — a broken bone, say — ADHD is invisible. People offer sympathy when you are in pain. Trying to explain ADHD without seeming to make excuses is tough. Perhaps if someone were to create a “sling” or “splint” for ADHD, the public might have more sympathy for having the condition. —Ann, Tennessee
Every day is a struggle, but you make the best of it. Meds help, but they aren’t a miracle cure. You take things people say literally. —Argelia, Georgia
It is as if you are driving through thick fog, on a dark road, trying to get to where you know you are supposed to be. The problem is, you lost the directions and have no GPS to guide you — and, in the background, the radio is playing loud songs that are changing. —April, Texas
It feels like there is always noise in my head — a constant buzzing that I can’t make sense of. It’s also paralyzing and frustrating. —An ADDitude Reader
Like I am drowning in a maelstrom of “stuff” that needs to get done, but that I never finish. It’s a never-ending feeling of futility. —Linda, Florida
Having ADHD is like having a nonstop conversation with yourself. -Christina, Texas
It’s like being off balance, off kilter, similar to when the computer buffers a video, and it takes forever to load and play without doing all that starting and stopping. —Debbie, Arizona
It’s not easy having an 18-year-old brain in a 61-year-old body! —Diane, Florida