Dear Teen Parenting Coach

Q: How Can We Hold the School Accountable for Following My Child’s 504 Plan?

Teachers don’t always return emails or calls from parents, and children may not be well-versed on their own accommodations. When grades start to falter, here’s how parents can be sure the IEP or 504 plan is being followed — even when lines of communication are murky.

Q: “My child’s grades are slipping in one subject: math. This has always been a challenging subject for testing; he seems to understand the information on homework, but falls apart on tests. How can I tell if the teacher is following his 504 plan accommodations, especially if she won’t return emails or phone calls? Also, what type of specialist could help my son test better in math? We seem to have limited resources in our area, and tutors have not been a help.”


You bring up a good point and one that plagues many parents: Once a 504 Plan is developed, how do parents ensure that it’s being implemented? As a parent, you are your child’s first and forever advocate, but how can you advocate at all times and at all places?

From afar, it is difficult to pinpoint what is happening with your son, but there are strategies you can employ to get a better and clearer sense. Since his grades are slipping, I would recommend requesting a School Support Team (SST) meeting. This is a chance for you to sit around the table with his teachers, an administrator, and whomever directs the ESE program at your school. Come prepared by requesting data in advance of the meeting. Tell the school that, prior to the meeting, you would like to review all academic ongoing progress monitoring data including — but not limited to — grades, computerized program data, and weekly skills tests. If your son is receiving interventions (Tier 2 or Tier 3) to address his poor performance, ask to review that data as well.

[Quiz: Do You Know the Law on 504s and IEPs?]

Once you are at the meeting, ask poignant and specific questions to your son’s teachers about which accommodations are working best in the classroom. The teachers’ responses will clue you in to how versed they are about his accommodations and the 504 Plan in general. When you ask questions, make sure not to sound on the offensive, because then the teachers will respond on the defensive. You don’t want that, you want them to open up to you and tell you more. This is one of the best ways to see what’s really going on in the classroom.

The 504 Plan is designed to provide students with disabilities equal access to the general education curriculum. If your son’s grades are declining, then clearly the 504 Plan is ineffective. You could remind the school-based team that 504 Plans are not limited to JUST accommodations, but can offer services to meet the unique needs of the student. Perhaps it needs to add mathematics intervention a few times a week until the grade comes up again. Hold the school accountable!

The second part of your question relates to what you can do to better support your child’s math progress after school hours. Tutoring rarely works when a student with a disability has large gaps. Not only does your son need to be retaught foundational skills, but he also needs a professional who understands his disability and his learning style.

Most teachers don’t have training in specific disabilities; they work from a tutoring model versus a remediation model. I would recommend the latter to you. Tutoring is more of a Band-Aid approach to a wound; remediation is deep healing. Look for an individual who has a masters degree In Special Education — or an education remediation center. There is also an excellent program online called Gemm Learning, if math fluency is a struggle.

[Free Resource: Sample 504 Plan]

Before finding the right provider, get to the heart of your son’s math struggles. If his failing grades are caused more by distractibility or anxiety than by difficulty understanding mathematical concepts, then you might want to invest in cognitive behavioral therapy to assist your son in developing coping skills to manage the distractibility/anxiety.

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  1. While I agree with everything that Krista has said about IEP’s and 504’s, as a former math teacher I do disagree a bit about her tutoring suggestions. Simply because we don’t know what grade level your son is in.

    It is one thing to catch up a 5th grader stuck in improper fractions, but its a whole different matter to get a kid up to speed in Algebra. But, I do agree that it can be a huge gap to fill if it is an older child. A tutor if used must almost be every night if it is an older child. And at any level, the tutoring must continue during the summer. In fact, that is probably the most important time.

    Also, you need to look at your childs tests. Does he start out really well, and then run out of time (this is where a 5o4/IEP is really important). Or do some of this answers make no sense at all? Which leads to a really big question. Is he on medication? In my teaching experience, I found that a child with decent intelligence, would hit the wall about 4th grade in math if they had undiscovered ADHD. A really sharp kid probably could make it to Algebra. Point being, that natural intelligence just could not compensate for the information that had to be gained in class to deal with improper fractions or algebra, if they could not pay attention. An no IEP or 504 really can help with that.

    There are web sites that do a fantastic job of helping teach math concepts. The Khan Academy is a great example of a site where you can pick a specific subject and get a very understandable explanation. That site is … https://www.khanacademy.org/math

    I can make more specific recommendations if I know what grade he is in. Hope this helps.

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