I recently went on a date and was stopped by my date two drinks into it to share I had spent 80 percent of our time talking. I had no idea. I immediately apologized and made a point to ask questions and focus more on learning about her, a woman I found incredibly impressive and wanted to impress. Once I realized I had spoken for so long, I focused on focusing on her. Somehow, I managed to get a second date, and then a third, fourth and now it’s been close to two months.