wribeau

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  • in reply to: Can't tell if this is bullying. #128774
    wribeau
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    I wouldn’t say anything about your adhd. Is this women somewhat in charge of you? If she’s been there longer than you and in a way yes she is higher up than you then I would just try to please the shit out of her.
    Sometimes that will make things better but sometimes nothing you do will help and she is just bullying you. If you know she isn’t going anywhere anytime soon maybe you should find a different job. It can be scary finding a new job it was for me but I was in a situation like how you discribed and it was unhealthy for me to stay. After I left I ended up finding a job where the people I worked with were much better

    in reply to: ADHD + Friendship – Give up or not? #127497
    wribeau
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    I don’t think you should give up. I’ve done the same thing your friend is doing Mia. I never meant to hurt my friend I don’t always realize when I do it and recently my good friend who lives in a different state then me gave me a huge wake up call. She told me how it makes her feel when I do that and I can hear how she felt in her voice while she talked to me and I made the decision right then that if she text me no matter how I was feeling I would respond. She is also not needy. Another thing happened about 6months ago I think. I told my brother I would come by his shop in the morning cause I need his help with something anyway I never showed up when I said I would and he called me and I didn’t answer his call. I didn’t call him back until 3 days later. Again I heard it in his voice And the way he explained to me, I realized how wrong it was for me not to call him. I told him when I missed our set time to come by I felt bad for screwing up I ignored his calls because I didn’t want to face him. I felt like I had disappointed him for not being able to show up. He said it doesn’t matter to him if I show up or couldn’t. He just wanted me to call him and tell him I’m coming or I can’t cont makoit that’s all. He explained that when I didn’t show up and didn’t respond to his calls for three days he doesn’t know what happened and then he worries did something happen to me. He said just call

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