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  • in reply to: extreme difficulty awakening in the morning #74969
    Vhr
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    Hi jac64. You posted sometime ago but I have had the exact same thing in the morning with my son since he was 13. He is 16 now. It is like he is under a general anaesthetic but able to react angrily if really pushed. He does not register any alarms including one for the deaf and a sunrise one. He us very angry and aggressive but has no memory of any interactions. I have come to believe he really does not remember.

    He has had extreme difficulty falling asleep for years but has melatonin for that now. It works but unfortunately does not cure the waking problems.

    I find people don’t understand the extent of this problem. It might be depression but I have had a friend with depression and her inability to get up and go was not the same as literally not being able to be woken up by anything?
    I wish I had an answer! Is there anyone else out there who has experienced this? I can’t find any advice on the internet.

    in reply to: 16 and pushing everyone to their limits #61812
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    Blimey, a chance would be a fine thing in the UK! It’s shameful but there really is not much out there especially for teens. Certainly no talking treatments or coaching that I have found. Schools are under pressure to get results and their budgets have cut so they can’t offer much. To give you an idea despite his diagnosis he has no access to child mental health services at all despite being out of school for nearly a year. He does not meet the criteria.
    We did do the diet exercise fish oils at home for a while but he just refuses to cooperate with any of that now….

    in reply to: 16 and pushing everyone to their limits #61765
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    Hi Clara88. As you mention a gp, I expect you are in uk. Access to services and help is very limited isn’t it? My son was diagnosed aged 15 with inattentive type predominately. I too have been on a parenting course! My son is in year 11 and was expelled in the first term of year year 10. He has just refused to go anywhere else since then. He was/ is quite bright but it seems its ok for him to be left on the scrap heap because there is no one to help him. He has had one paediatric appointment where they prescribed meds but nothing else follow up in one year. He has found help with sleeping through cannabis as he was refused melatonin or anything like that. I have battled and battled with him, schools, doctors, youth service etc. It’s pretty exhausting. You are not alone, just remember you are doing your best and try to keep seeing the positive things your son is doing. I think currently there are extremely poor services for these children in the uk.

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