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  • in reply to: The RAGE! #192333
    susunq
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    Same thing happened to meπŸ™„πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ..BUT..I prob best on my part!?!?🀭 Lol
    It took me near 2 hrs to rely! So sending this out. Maybey?! Lol I
    (Eediting those voice mail txt takes loong!🀭)
    ..at least the Majority of the ADD podcast seem to be talking about many things I struggled in past years and continue with on a daily basis! If folks would OnlY educate themselves on struggles with the adult ADD issues of this 21st Century!😏NeVeR SaY NeVeR!πŸ€«πŸ˜‰
    GooD luck and I appreciate aLL you who I’m able to relate at nearly 100%πŸ‘πŸ’―β€πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

    in reply to: RSD – my profound discovery #188378
    susunq
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    Thanks for your reply Kerplunk! I think ThaTπŸ‘†is a FABULOUS IDEA! WE SHOULD form that..
    LiVinG LiFe LaTe with ADD.πŸ€— Awesome idea! ..
    I have alot to say with these issues YeT..I just spent or rather WASTED close to an hour on another forum and ..just MY luckπŸ™„it didnt post..BUT..I would love to further discuss some ideas with you. I did want to thank you for your feedback..oh and also let you know I agree with the nature walks. I take my dog on hikes. Although he pulled me down on Saturday after another dog. Making me fall! Lol I’m sure I got a big dose of SEROTONIN from ThaT! Lol..
    So I will get back with you ASAP..
    Its pushing 3am and I’ve been TRYING to get more sleep and NoT stay up til SunRise! Have a great day! Yakatcha sooner than Later!πŸ™‹β€β™€οΈ

    in reply to: RSD – my profound discovery #188377
    susunq
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    TESTING TESTING (BEFORE I spend nearly an hour like I just did on that TRAMADOL post)..πŸ™„Only to receive a ..Error that it didnt POST!..πŸ˜–πŸ€«

    in reply to: RSD – my profound discovery #188349
    susunq
    Participant

    So true. Unfortnately, I can relate to how you feel and the struggles and unbearable pain of RSD. Prepare yourself for what’s to come.πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ All my life others always considered me that “Happy go Lucky”,FuNNy AND..
    “Life of the party” friend. THEN..Shortly after turning 50 (& AFTER more than 10 yrs of being treated for anxiety and depression) with NO positive results, my doctor referred me to a Board Certified Psychiatrist who provided indepth evaluations, before he officially diagnosed me with adult ADD. I was diagnosed with “Combined ADD” which clearly explained the “emotional issues” Id been struggling with. Once he started treating me for ADD it was then discovered I also had every trait of RSD which explained my NO SELF ESTEEM (much of that relates to my childhood) RSD is one of the biggest struggles I deal with that relate to my Emotional issues. (In fact, it was the ANGER responsible for my 6 wk inpatient hospitalization) Bottom line? That person people once viewed me as, is now history and no longer exist. THE reason for that is due to the STIGMA society places on us who DO STRUGGLE DAILY with adult ADD! SO..Naturally I discovered the only way (for me) to AVOID being hurt by ignorant remarks from others is to shut down physically and emotional! Clearly for many..it’s easier to categorize us with the “STIGMA” society places with us who struggle daily with a invisible disability. Good Luck and more importantly..
    Keep on being YOU..(or..you can do like me and hide in your own box)πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ
    StaYSafE 😷

    in reply to: So Lonely/ Virtual Support Groups? #188318
    susunq
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    Wow..πŸ€”and here I’ve been thinking I was the ONLY ONE who continues to be “MisUnderStooD” by EVERYONE!
    In addition to that..I always end up getting taken advantage of by aLL my (so called) friends! the word “NO” was not in my vocabulary up until the last year or so. These “so called friends” would even STEAL from me and when I questioned them, I was always told “you have ADD so YOU probably just lost it!” I put up with this far too long and regret I did since nearly aLL my friendships are beyond fractured! SO Ive come to realize it just HURTS too much to CARE so a couple years ago discovered the ONLY Way to avoid being hurt/used/criticized misunderstood/ etc., was when I decided to STOP saying “I’m Sorry” about ANYTHING and EVERYTHING that went wrong. It seemed like anything that went WRONG was ALWAYS my fault I’ve also discovered the ONLY way to AVOID being BLAMED for whatever goes WRONG..is to “hide in my box” due to hurtful past experiences. Sadly, I made a decision to (both) physically and emotionally “SHUT DOWN” from the outside world. I’ve LEARNED it HURTS too damn much to CARE! Sadder than that is…ONCE UPON a TIME, I was ALWAYS known as the funny, outgoing,”life of the party” free spirited type and NOW I dont want to talk and/or SEE anyone! It’s only a reminder those “so called friends” did nothing but take advantage of my kindness AND my ADD!..SO…Yep I’m lonely and MY biggest WISH would be for folks to take a little time and EDUCATE themselves on how hard We Struggle living with ADD daily not to mention how much we WISH people can realize we too are human. Our brains are just wired differently BUTπŸ€”that doesnt mean YOU CAN’T accept us just”as we are” and MORE Importantly TRY to UNDERSTAND us😏
    IF their “TIME” is too valuable to take to EDUCATE themselves on adult ADD..they are MORE than WELCOME to walk a day in MY shoes!”πŸ₯΄πŸ˜πŸ˜–πŸ€«

    in reply to: I don’t know. #187322
    susunq
    Participant

    I’m sorry and I SO CAN RELATE and FEEL YOUR PAIN!πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ In fact, I have completely both emotionally and physically SHUT DOWN from the Outside world and PRAY you are Stronger than myself, as you are half my age and have SO MUCH to Live for! Unfort after many years of being treated for depression, I was 51yrs old before Officially diagnosed with adult ADD by a Board certified psychiatrist. I also suffer with RSD due to many years of criticism from family and friends bc of my behavior. Bless you and..KEEP ON KEEPING ON BEING YOU!

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