Well I’m currently in my 12th year with my ADHD partner. Married 3 years. 3 children. I’m miserable at the moment. He is going to his referral appointment next week. Had to pay private as the referral time was horrendous. He interrupts everyone, so rude, has aggressive outbursts, shouts constantly nags at the kids, cant cope with them so i never leave them alone with him. Im a very patient person but feel like I’m at the end of the line here, i want to end the marriage but then he has the odd good day. But then i feel like i can’t give up now before he has the full diagnosis. But what I’m reading is just because he has been diagnosed it doesn’t make things better. So if i could go back in time i don’t think i would do this again.