irishguy

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  • in reply to: Marriage and Emotional Affairs #87824
    irishguy
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    hey, i’m sorry to hear your wife gave you that ultimatum. hopefully you can turn things around because it sounds like you really want to. has your wife previously put effort and time into understanding what’s going on with you? if not, i’d say she is being unreasonable but then she is likely still upset and angry about the affair.

    my wife and i recently started seeing a marriage counsellor (1 session) – not a specific add marriage counsellor. the lady seemed understanding when i spoke about the problems i have with intimacy and getting in the right frame of mind for it. and she also helped my wife see some things a little differently, which i feel will improve things a lot at home.

    in reply to: Marriage and Emotional Affairs #87812
    irishguy
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    I can relate to your problems. I have always struggled to maintain interest in my relationships. I am constantly looking at other women, fantasizing about having sex with them. I’ve been married for 4 years and I struggle to get motivated to have sex with my wife. 🙁

    It sucks, especially for her and I feel bad about it. I’ve recently starting looking into, and trying to understand whether my ADD is the cause of my ‘always looking for the next / a new shiny thing, or whether there is something else going on in my head.

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