It was a beautiful goodbye

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      sadenhusband11
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      My wife have been battling cancer for a year already. Just last week, she died in my arms. It was heartbreaking, I cried a lot, but the thought of still having our kids with me is enough to say “I need to move on”. Before that tragic event, she made me promised to take care of our kids and continue with my life. It took me seconds to respond. I said “Yes”. A week before her passing, I already accepted the fact that she’ll die soon. This was made clearer when our family doctor attested what I was thinking.

      My memories with her are still fresh. Our first meeting to a romance date tour, our wedding day, welcoming our kids to our lives, until the day she closed her eyes and die.
      It might be unusual to say but “it was a beautiful goodbye” with her. I know she’s in the right place now. Years from now, I’ll be with her again.

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      bellasmommie75
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      I really am not sure what to say but I want to acknowledge your pain. I’m so sorry for your loss.I hope that you and your babies find peace.When I lost my mother 3 years ago I found peace in the fact that she is no longer suffering. Maybe this could help you as well.

      • #82810
        sadenhusband11
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        I need to move on. I still have my kids with me and I need to be strong for them. I am also sorry for your loss. Thanks for your response. I really appreciate this

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