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    lonelybf123
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    After 7 years of being together with my girlfriend, I’ve decided it’s time for me to let myself out of the commitment and enjoy my life. I want to start living how I want to live and meet new people. I just don’t know how to bring this topic up to my now long-distance gf. She migrated about a year ago to move with her family and ever since then, things have definitely changed. I guess we both have had the time to be by ourselves for once and I think things wouldn’t work out anymore. I’ve been reading some online advice articles, international dating blogs, and youtube videos but I still seem to be lost and confused with what to do. Can anyone help me out here?

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    ccd_luna
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    I think you have done a pretty good job verbalizing it now. It shouldn’t be any different with your girlfriend. Use the exact same wording, with a slight tweak. Ex:”You migrated about a year ago to move with your family and ever since then, things have definitely changed[…]“

    Honesty is the best policy and it’s also best not to overthink it.

    Good luck! 😉

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