I knew my husband had ADD when we married. I was diagnosed with ADD inattentive, a few years into our marriage. We had a child who was recently diagnosed with ADHD and a few years ago we adopted 2 boys, both of who have ADHD. I have never been great at keeping a structured lifestyle, we have always been considered the “laid back” family. I don’t want my children going through life with the struggles I have faced for not reaching personal and professional goals. I am frustrated because a parents we can’t seem to provide the structure my children need to be successful. My house is in total chaos. I am ashamed to have family and friends over to the house. I used to be able to manage fine, but recently I just feel overwhelmed and don’t accomplish anything.