It’s really hard to get anything from conversations about ADHD with those who don’t have it or understand it. That’s why online forums like this are so great.
It’s best to find people who get ADHD to talk with about ADHD. See if there’s an in-person support group in your area.
Here are also some tips for making new friends when you have ADHD:
ADDitude Community Moderator, Parenting ADHD Trainer & Author, Mom to teen w/ ADHD, LDs, and autism