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tavablake
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We had similar problems before we decided to find the money to have a cleaner come around once a month. Like Blizz70, we have a similar last-minute scramble to tidy things up before she comes around to make it easier for them to work, and to avoid them having to deal with things like the cat’s litter tray. I was really embarrassed to have a cleaner come around at all at first, I felt like a failure, but that feeling has faded over time. Getting someone else to do major things like vacuum and mop the house on a regular basis means that things can get untidy, but not really dirty.