Wow…..I am reading more posts. It sounds like since we are dating and not married, I should “run.” I must admit….I am not perfect either. He acknowledges that he has ADHD and is willing to be on medication. Nice he quits the pot, I think he will be out back on the medicine. I guess I’ll see how he acts then. The “problem” is that I fell in love with him and that doesn’t come easily for me.