Empower your son by setting small self growth goals.
Eg.this week we are working on waking yourself up with an alarm. (Alarm should be out of reach, annoying sound and at a reasonable hour) some how millions of people of all ages with ADHD get themselves out of bed in the morning, so despite how impossible it feels, it is possible.
Reassess in a week, let him score himself, resetthe goal and work on that for the next week.
Change is tough, but change is also good.
Hubby possibly is anxious about the future and my feel like it’s been left too late to set new habits, show him you are both working on/being proactive about changing, get him involved in encouragement and support for your son to achieve his new goals
- This reply was modified 2 years, 4 months ago by JWK.