Oh my goodness. My husband and I are in the same boat with our daughter. I thought we were the only ones!! It’s like I’m reading a book of our family. It’s exhausting and lonely and depressing. Our school has been supportive thankfully. Our daughter is going to be in 10th grade and I know the personalities of the special ed teachers and counselors so now I can push a little bit more on each teacher.
Out here in San Diego County is one high school that has a great program. My friends boys went thru it. It’s the AARC program. Look up El Camino HS AARC program. I wish that was offered in all schools in San Diego. Another note… my daughter took math in summer school
And got an A. The teacher makes a difference!