Hello, I am interested to read these posts. My husband has recently left me because he “needs space to work out what is wrong with him, he feels defective and can’t connect with people”. He has trouble doing tasks he finds boring, is successful at work as he hyperfocuses. For those who have commented in this post, can I ask what made you feel “wrong” or what did you notice? We have two sons who have been diagnosed with ADHD so it is quite possible my husband has it.