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JBoom
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No, you’re not wrong. Untreated ADHD is not fun to deal with, and no one is under any obligation to deal with it except parents of children with ADHD.

Sounds like he’s doing plenty of self-medication (alcohol, social media), which isn’t very effective. You gave him the feedback he needed, and the consequence he earned. Hopefully, you’ve planted a seed that will someday be helpful for him.