Jboom and belovedleah if my original post came across saying my ADD was to blame for emotional affair, I apologize. Like I said in earlier post, my flesh was weak and I did not guard my marriage, my home and family. I let my heart stray. I was a foolish man. I scarred my wives heart deeply. Even being on medication, I still do and say irrational things. What I am saying is those are symptoms of ADD. Jboom I have read behavorial treatment definetly helps so thank for the reminder. Unfortanately I procrasinated finding an ADD coach. My behavior and attitude has too change or my marriage will be over. I pray its not to late.