I could have written this post.
Except that I brought ADHD up briefly with two different doctors now, and I just got a lecture on how most people who mention adult ADHD are just “med seekers” and was totally dismissed. And I don’t live in a very large metro area, so doctors are limited anyway.
Now I have to find the energy to attack this issue and not back down, and frankly I don’t have that kind of energy anymore because everything else in my life just drains me.
I hope you find the help you need, and I hope I do.