La bougette or adhd momma i couldnt agree with you more. Only thing missing and perhaps because i am much older is that immense sense of relief to know that there is an honest to god reason. One of the packages of brain wires is not functioning properly. We are short certain lubricants that make the brain work more efficiently. If we learn some better coping strategies we can perform better at almost everything. I can also recommend the same books but unfortunately read them to late to save any of my 3 marriages.
If you were missing the fingers on one or both of your hands you would have trouble doing scads of things. Well this is the same but invisible. A diagnosis is the beginning of a different (and can be much better) life