It’s funny, I would think we’re flipped. He keeps making comments about how messy it is, whereas I don’t mind the clutter in spurts. Maybe you’re right though. He was always WAY messier then me when we were dating. And I do tend to misread his social cues a lot. He’s gotta be really blunt to get through my adhd fog. Lol. It’s worth talking about. Thanks for the feedback!