Reply To: Father or bully? Home › Welcome to the ADDitude Forums › For Adults › Father or bully? › Reply To: Father or bully? July 5, 2018 at 9:43 pm #87646 smkp76Participant Well he was ADD as a kid, he’s still got many signs and symptoms. And yeah He is a jerk but I feel like much of the frustration and anxiety he has leads to poor behavior.