Can he work as a private baseball coach? People who are serious about their kids playing baseball/softball in college and such will hire a private coach. It’s like tutoring for sports. Sounds like that could be a great fit.
As for moving to a new place where the cost of living is lower — I think that’s a great idea. I’ve wanted to do it for a few years but can’t right now (my son with ADHD FINALLY has friends and I won’t take that away from him). If moving everything cross-country is too expensive, what about selling your furniture and many of your belongings and really starting over? Maybe you could qualify for Section 8 housing vouchers in a new place until you get back on your feet again.
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