My son has these symptoms/Issues as well but he is 12 yrs old. A stuffed animal and being wrapped up in a soft blanket helps him to settle also. His Doctor put him on Tenex and Abilify and it worked great with helping him stay more in control, but he was tired a lot more. Our bodies just get flooded with so much and you just can’t control it. I know it’s hard when other people haven’t seen it first hand or even understand. Definitely talk to your Doctors and keep talking cause something needs to be done to help you.