Perhaps it is because at work we have structure and routine and home is more flex….I like the escape from both in my home life…but a point of order is nice as well! I make lists and I enjoy the perk of crossing off the list as completed and also rewriting the new lists. I make progress. Also I time jobs,, five mins to empty the dishwasher and to fold a basket of clothing. I can do them while I am waiting for something else.. (waiting for water to heat for tea!LOL) Not perfect or all encompassing but in the right direction. I figured this out when I was planning big dinner parties..and when i have a list and assign days and times to do certain things…I am calmer and things get done. Anytime you can write a list and anchor it on paper and not have it floating around in your head.. Calmness prevails!!