My son is 23 and lives on the west coast. We seem to be able to communicate better with FaceTime, phone calls and text. Holiday gatherings can still be tough and I find I HAVE to emotional disconnect to survive them. But I don’t like it. I would like a more loving relationship with him. I’ve learned a lot about my own ADD within the last year and I look forward to a quiet time where I might be able to share some of the information with him. But it is tough to hear the words an not be hurt by them.