Hello, my sorrow in this instance is with you. My child who is 7 has experienced this herself. It is painful as a parent when other parents single them out as “bad”. We now celebrate by going to a place she chooses and making it all about her with those close to her who accept her for her. She responds well to these events and when a meltdown happens, those there understand. Keep up the good work, you are doing a great job!