I always had sleepover parties with just one or two boys I could count on to come or want to come. I didn’t do the “invite a class” parties because it was just always too hit or miss. The boys have much more fun and its more controllable when you hand select one or two.. and plan something really fun.. like paintball.. or wallclimbing.. or glo-putt golf.. so they are not just home and “bored”. I also made sure to have food that wasnt too sugary.. pizza– lemonade instead of pop/soda… (except for the cake or cupcakes!) Ice cream is a better bet than cake.. if they can have dairy.