i just wanted to send hugs to all of you who posted here.
i was shamed and ridiculed and made to feel like the most annoying person in the history of the world because i made the mistake of marrying a man who literally cannot tolerate this. His impatience and critical nature just got worse and worse over the years. It still stuns me that I lived like that for so many painful years 🙁
Anyway I know it hurts a lot and i just want to say… Remember to love yourselves like you would your own child!!! We deserve that. I am still embarrassed and worried about the same things you all described, but I do try to laugh to myself and be more like a kid inside, someone who has a best friend who is exactly like me, and thinks I am just perfect. In our own weirdo uniquely awesome way.