That’s a really tough struggle when he isn’t open to treatment and is an adult. Your options are very limited. It always breaks my heart when people are so anti-medication, when it could really change their lives.
I would encourage you to post this to a new topic/thread so members will see your questions about a young adult refusing treatment/meds. You’re certainly not the only family to experience it.
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