“I knew he had ADHD but it was just brushed off like he takes medication and nothing more.”
Just to clarify. Ok, so, you KNEW he had ADHD. When did you find out? In your initial post it sounds like you had intentionally been kept in the dark about his condition & now that he’s “got you,” he’s releasing his “true” ADHD self & his parents are playing along. Lol
Anyway, I’ve chimed in a couple of times. I’ve enjoyed reading everyone’s input so far. I wrote a longer post (scroll down a bit) addressing some of your other points.