Ugh, that sounds profoundly annoying/frustrating.
Your husband doesn’t sound v empathetic yet you say he’s supportive? If you don’t mind me asking, HOW? is he actually supportive?
He teases you and excuses your ADHD brain as just “quirky and forgetful..”? But you have straight-up told him that you have ADHD, right? He must have some serious denial(or something) issues since you’re diagnosed and even taking medication yet he still doesn’t believe you?
Your body, your right to treatment! Do what you gotta do sister! Damn the man who puts that down