I guess I’d like to understand what your motivation is behind “knowing more” or “feeling hurt” about your husband having ADHD.
Where is this hurt coming from? Why?
Why do you want to know more?
What’s the big deal? (meant w no offence or judgement, just questioning if it is a big deal to you and why?)
He’s been living with ADHD for all his life and if he’s seemingly unconcerned, why are you? 🙂