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cherryblossom
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He is using his ADHD as a scapegoat. While ADHD may contribute to someone’s wish to cheat, it’s not an excuse. He still ultimately made the decision to cheat… again and again and again. “Impulsivity” is one thing, but doing it for a year is no longer impulsivity. He made that choice.

I’m really sorry this happened to you.

  • This reply was modified 2 years, 10 months ago by cherryblossom.