I TOTALLY understand your struggle. I too am an ADD mom with and ADHD 7yo son and it’s no joke. I’m a full time teacher and a lot of my organizational energy is spent there. I’ve had to get outside help with my home because o can’t do it all. My husband is also successful and travels 80% of the time in a month, so routin s fall on me a lot and I’ll be honest, the routines are sometimes non-existent.
Tour description of “running s marathon each day” was SPOT ON!! You’re not alone! Simplify things and slow down as much as you can. Get outside hep for cleaning the house or whatever chores that are overwhelming. I have a friend whose cleaners also do her laundry. Hang in there, you’re not alone 😉