My husband unfortunately, has spent his time being homeless when he was single. At fifty he is finally realizing he has ADHD pretty severely with the diagnosis of our daughter but still refuses medication and therapy. He thinks he can fix it himself. Unfortunately he still has all his grand schemes, wants a different job and insists he this time will be different. Cannot accept holding a regular job as a success. Trying to support hobbies and other activities but feel like I’m losing ground faster than I’m gaining it. In the meantime I’m trying not to lose perspective with our daughter and get her on a better track.