I want to know, also. I try to live in gratitude mode. But just like everyone else on the planet, I would like to feel understood. ADD makes life astronomically more difficult. To be understood, rather than criticized would make a problem-filled life so much easier. Telling about ADD sounds like excuses, or whining. People without ADD have no idea of the hardship, and don’t have an interest, or worse, don’t believe it’s even real. Any ideas?