hi deb91, thanks for your reply, there is not much help here in NZ for ADHD that I can find. he takes Ritalin for his ADHD but often doen’t take it or runs out of it and needs another Drs appointment to get some more which he finds very stressful. volunteering is a great idea, i’m going to look into that.
i have found a link in another post for gaming https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R634ytgt7fw it is about how to hack the gaming addiction and use it for life skills. the Youtuber is good and i’ve watched some more of her posts which are good. try her.
your boy is 14 and that is great you have time to readjust his routines, while he is still a bit interested in what you think. aren’t habits and routines so hard to adjust once they have them in play. all the best