Thank you so much for your reply. I am starting to believe that a combination of meds may be more successful for my son. I found a pediatrician who specializes in ADHD, so I am making an appointment to meet with him…our current ped just doesn’t know. I need supernanny or an adhd coach to help with the rest so that my son has consistent structure, etc. And to tell me how to respond when he tries to manipulate a situation in his favor. You’d think a parent would get better at this after 14 years, but not so. Thank you for your help.