It may sound harsh buy these kids have to grow up. They shouldn’t expect everyone to change for them. They have to change for everyone else. The proble is the school system caters kids especially kids with special needs. Consequently they NEVER develop any coping skills, can’t deal with failure or rejection. Also many kids in special education either develop a learned helplessness or passivity towards trying to do things on their own or have a false perception that they are better at something than they really ar3.