I love what Penny said! My son is ODD and tries to get out of homework all the time, he will yell at me if I contact the teacher for missing assignments. He doesn’t have the foresight to see that he is hurting himself. I guess I have no real help on the therapy aspect, but wanted to let you know you’re not alone. Guanfacine ER has helped our son greatly, he’s not quite as quick to react to everything! GL!