Please tell me that I am not the only one who does not enjoy being a mom more times than I would like to admit. My son is only 6 and has been diagnosed with adhd and he is so defiant. I have a shared parenting with his dad so of course he is not as defiant with dad because he fears him. We have started him on viarin and it is only the beginning and I don’t see any difference at all. My ex is very much a pain in the butt, would like to use other words but probably can’t. Even though the Dr that tested him said that some meds will work, at this point he is against it. I am waiting on the results on the genomind but do I need a legal ok with dad to put him on something when with me? He is extremely impulsive and I fear that he can endanger another child or himself. Dad and his parents are helicopter parents, so he is not given much leniency to be trusted even though they say differently. This is so stressful. Please any suggestions will be FABULOUS!! THANK YOU!