DDDaysh – Thank you for your response. Really makes a lot of sense to me. I really appreciate practical solutions, wanted you to know your post is quite helpful. I would also highly highly recommend The Explosive Child for anyone with an ADHD child. It really helped me (neurotypical, cannot understand ADHD) to gain insight on my child. So completely frustrating for me and him, but I’ve seen the light. At least a little bit, and I’m trying. And I’m a better person for it.