Thanks Jackie1234. I had spent about 7 years being single after my first awful boyfriend at 17 and had lots of counselling as that first boyfriend was intentionally abusive. I’ve given up hope that I will be able to get stronger although I know I am a nice person and wish I could end up with a kind man. I know I really really don’t need my current partner’s problems and I’m sure it is definately impacting my well being.
PS MESSAGE TO ANNEHW. I am not going to read any of your comments as the bits I have read of yours, I can tell they are coming from a bitter heart. If you give advice the first thing you must include is compassion and love.