Reply To: HELP! Stuck in the Passive Aggressive, Spiteful and Vendictive Cycle Home › Welcome to the ADDitude Forums › For Spouses & Loved Ones › HELP! Stuck in the Passive Aggressive, Spiteful and Vendictive Cycle › Reply To: HELP! Stuck in the Passive Aggressive, Spiteful and Vendictive Cycle August 15, 2017 at 5:24 pm #57505 aross_76Participant I just left a 14 year marriage for the same thing. Get out! You cannot change or help this person.
