I’d still talk to her doctor about it. My son is off the hook impulsive and extremely moody as well but after lots of trial and error with different medications and combos we found one that helps with both those issues tremendously. If the meds are not helping with both inattention and impulsivity you might consider exploring other options. He was dx at 6, we began the medication road at 7 and he’s 11 now. I can also say that my son tests every new authority person’s limits. Every teacher, every sitter, every camp counselor, etc so it’s possible she’s just trying to see where the boundaries lie with this new person in her life. It’s not easy – best wishes to you and your family.