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woodenmeow
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I am needing some help and some Support. I feel so alone in this. My boyfriend have been on and off for 3 years (known each other 20yrs) in that time he has broke it on once or twice. At first I thought it was normal guy commitment issues, and there still might be a layer of that. But He has trouble focusing. Always some kink of project, sometimes he finishes and sometimes Not. He has even said a handful of times “I think I have ADD”
He has not be diagnosed by anyone. He has been and I guess it’s been all his life he is having trouble with Emotions. I can’t help but to wonder if all of this interconnected?
He says its roadblocks and feeling a fog. Right now we are on one of our breaks. He needs to get his emotions togehter.
If anyone can shed some light on this it would be great?