I agree with those who smell bipolar disorder.
IF that is the case, please know that BF may not get help. IF he does, treatment is very tedious, taking a lot of trial & error. I suspect suicide threats from BF. If so, take it seriously but allowing it to control you will make you sick….in fact, if so, you should get counseling
I wish you a blessed and happy life
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